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Healing People. Transforming Systems. Building Communities.

We help leaders move from reaction to repair.

Too often we respond to behaviors instead of their roots.

Why This Matters

 Brilliant Employee → Stops engaging = Bring in wellness coach
Unseen Student → Takes their life = Bring in grief counselor
Talented Athlete → Inconsistent performance = Sit 'em on the bench
Person we're leading → symptoms of unprocessed trauma = Address the symptom

This is not about performance.

It's about patterns of relational trauma - and we can help.

We teach leaders how to address the root, not the symptom.

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What is Relational Trauma?

It’s the hidden force behind burnout, conflict, and disconnection. Relational trauma forms when safety and trust are disrupted within relationships, at home, at work, or in community. Over time, it shapes how we regulate emotions, manage stress, and connect with others.

We've Built An Ecosystem of Healing 

Healing an individual heals a system. Healing a system heals communities.

Healing Your Map

Deep Individual Awareness

The book that started it all. Build deep awareness around how your internal map (values, beliefs, habits) shapes the way you lead, love, and build relationships.

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The AMEND Practice™

Individuals Helping Individuals

A simple, universal tool that anyone can use to help individuals regulate their emotions and rebuild connection.

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Applied Relational Healing™

Individuals Healing Systems

Learn how to create systems of healing through our research-based framework helping leaders, teams, and organizations function better stress.

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We also strongly believe that affordability should not preclude healing. Please visit our nonprofit if this speaks to your situation.

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Healing People. Transforming Systems. Building Communities.

Who We Serve

Parents & Coaches

Reduce staff burnout and behavior crises in schools and athletics.

Healthcare & LMHPs

Address the gap in trauma training, compassion fatigue, & strengthen care teams.

Educators & Athletics

Reduce staff burnout and behavior crises in schools and athletics.

Corporate Leaders

Prevent burnout, turnover, and fractured cultures.

Human Behavior Architects™ teaches the world how to heal.
The Elephant & Willow Project makes sure everyone gets the chance to.

Leading from a healed space is how legends are born.

What Our Clients Are Saying

Brian Weiss , MD • Psychiatrist | Best Selling Author
 
Your approach was the best I've ever experienced on this topic...I found your content focused, on target and without any fluff...you presented thoughtful actionable tools.

Dr. Joseph Rios • Educational Consultant | Google

Jodee is a professional that is committed to helping you understand human behavior. Her instructional style combined with her practical approach deepens your ability to understand. Jodee is a master at conveying the essence of human behavior.
Eric Stark • Head Volleyball Coach | University of Michigan Dearborn
 
I continue to hear student athletes as well as coaches using Jodee's approach and referencing her materials. And not to sound like a Billy Joel song yet it's interesting to see how life events leave a permanent imprint on someone's map...very interesting.
Jenna B. • Athletic Coach | Former Athlete
 
This really spoke to me as an athlete turned coach! A big part of my journey was not having a lot of confidence or mental toughness, and nobody around me had the tools to help me through that. As a coach I’ve made it my priority to build my athletes up in any way I can! Jodee's work has the power to completely shape the thought, which cycles into our emotions and actions...her work helped me understand how to fine tune my words to better talk to my athletes!
Jessica Atkins • Head VB Coach | Fort Hays State University
 
Great and super simple ideas to better engage your athletes and invite them into the process of learning and growth.
 
Carlos Flores • Vice Principal | Escuela Internacional Sampedrana
 
Very interesting approach on how to be better as a leader when expressing myself.

Dr. Richard Bandler • Co-Creator of NLP

Jodee Gibson has pragmatically taken the NLP theory to the person. I have, for fifty years, dealt with and developed technologies to get people past trauma of every description. I find her work proudly useful...heal yourself to live free and smile.
Kelli Meeks • How Words Work™ | Presented for WXW
 
Brilliant insights and actionable takeaways on why words, what we say and how we say it matters. “Spilling T.E.A. “ = gold . . . profoundly enhance your relationships, influence and impact.
Sam Skinner • How Words Work™ | Presented for WXW
 
Jodee gives you insight on how you react/respond/see the world around and shift your perspective to healthier choices. Her teaching is very impactful and I will be thinking of what she taught me on the daily.
Anonymous Attendee • How Words Work™ | Presented for Athletics
 
This was amazingly positive and motivating as a coach. I think the way Jodee is explaining and understand mental health and language is innovative and extremely important in this day and age.
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Healing Your Map

Jodee's first book, Healing Your Map - released in November, 2022 earned a 
2023 IPPY Silver Medal for psychology/mental health.
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