The Truth About Behaviors™
What’s really driving how we think, feel, and lead.
We’ve been trying to fix symptoms instead of understanding the system underneath them.
Behavior isn’t random → it’s revealing.
Start the ConversationTrusted by
We’ve been taught to treat symptoms, not systems.
What we call ‘bad behavior’ is usually a response to something unseen, and misunderstanding it costs us trust, connection, and progress.
⚠️ In Families
We punish, plead, or protect, without realizing the behavior is communicating something deeper.
⚠️ In Schools
We manage compliance instead of curiosity, and miss the moment to teach emotional capacity.
⚠️ In Organizations
We coach performance yet ignore the patterns that cause conflict, burnout, and fundamental breakdown.
Until we learn The Truth About Behaviors™, we’ll keep fixing what isn’t broken, and breaking what needs healing.
The Seed or The Weeds📍
What you see on the surface is the result of something planted way earlier.
🌱 The Seeds (What's Driving Behaviors)
The invisible patterns that shape how we think, feel, relate, and react:
✔️ Early conditioning
✔️ Emotional capacity
✔️ Internal and external rules
✔️ Unconscious beliefs
✔️ Nervous system patterns
✔️ Protective patterns
✔️ Unmet developmental needs
The seeds create everything downstream.
🌿 The Weeds (What We Keep Trying to Fix)
The behaviors we try to label, diagnose, or control:
→ Shutdowns & overwhelm
→ Conflict & defensiveness
→ Acting out
→ Burnout & disengagement
→ Resistance & avoidance
→ Emotional explosions
→ Repeated patterns
The weeds aren’t the problem, they’re the signal.
Address the seed → the behavior dissipates.
Meet Jodee Gibson, PCC, PhD Candidate
Human Behavior Expert & Systems Thinker
From teen mom to PhD Candidate, Jodee’s mix of lived chaos and formal credentials gives her a rare kind of credibility. She’s as comfortable breaking down the science of human behavior as she is breaking down our unconscious barriers.
Her work fuses decades of experience in leadership, systems theory, and developmental psychology into something practical, raw, and deeply human.
Her frameworks - Applied Relational Healing™ and The AMEND Practice™ - are reshaping how leaders and organizations approach emotional intelligence and communication so they can create sustainable change.
Relatable. Raw. Impossible to forget.
Start the Conversation
Every change begins with a story.
Let’s rewrite yours.
What Our Clients Are Experiencing
|Jodee is a master at conveying the essence of human behavior...her practical approach deepens your ability to understand. Dr. Joseph Rios • Educational Consultant for Google
|I continue to hear student athletes using Jodee's approach...it's interesting to see how life events leave a permanent imprint. Eric Stark • Head Coach | University of Michigan
|I find her work proudly useful...heal yourself to live free.
Dr. Richard Bandler • Co-Creator of NLP
Grab a copy of Jodee's book
Healing Your Map
Healing Your Map released Nov 2022 and earned a
2023 IPPY Silver Medal for psychology/mental health.
Purchase direct from IngramSpark
also sold at Amazon and Barnes & Noble
Purchase Direct
